Shichi-Go-San: the November 15 children's rite
Children aged 3, 5 and 7 dress up and visit a shrine to pray for healthy growth. Foreign families are welcome too.
What it is
A traditional rite marking ages 3 (boys and girls), 5 (boys) and 7 (girls). November 15 is the formal date, but many families now spread visits across September–December to avoid crowds, and shrines widely accept reservations.
Can foreign families join?
Most shrines do not restrict nationality. Some require booking and some do not (Shimogamo Shrine takes visitors from 9:00 to 16:30 without a reservation). Booking pages may be in Japanese only, so a hotel can help. Kimono can be rented in town, dressing included; adults wear smart clothes.
Where in Kyoto
The websites of Heian Jingu, Kitano Tenmangu, Kamigamo Shrine and Shimogamo Shrine all describe Shichi-Go-San prayers. Pick one that is convenient for you rather than the most famous. Fees (hatsuho-ryo) vary by shrine; check each page.
On the day
Arrive 15 minutes early to fill in the form and pay at the shrine office. A shrine maiden leads you in; the prayer lasts 15–20 minutes with parents present. Children receive chitose-ame (long red-white candy) and souvenirs after. Photos only in designated outdoor areas, never inside the hall.